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do you have a prior commitment?
One thing I’ve been terrible at throughout my career is setting boundaries. That sounds bad. Like I’ve been stealing Post-Its from my colleagues’ desks, or sniffing their bike seats. What I meant to say is that I’m terrible at setting boundaries in terms of how much work I’ll take on or complete. I’ll do everything . I’ll take work home to finish. I’ll come in early to make sure that rooms are set up and stay late just in case they need me to minute an extra agenda item. I’ll

Chessie Mills-Smith
Apr 7, 20253 min read


that's why her hair is so big
My husband learned years ago that he couldn’t keep secrets from me. It all stemmed from one conversation on the way home from the pub in November 2016. I’m a December baby, and we were talking about what I wanted to do for my birthday. ‘Do you mind if I give you your present in the afternoon of your birthday?’ ‘Oh, are you getting me a rabbit?’ Cue one very awkward silence. (It turned out he’d been planning on taking me to pick out a rabbit to adopt for my birthday. Luckily,

Chessie Mills-Smith
Mar 31, 20253 min read


just ask this scientitian
There are two ways of starting your maternity leave. The first is the ordinary way - you make sure someone will be handling your emails and your role while you’re away, spend your last day working in-person at the office, and then your team organises a long lunch, some balloons, and a John Lewis gift card. You sail off into the peach-coloured sunset, full of free sandwiches and store-bought cake, looking forward to meeting your new baby. The second way of starting your matern

Chessie Mills-Smith
Mar 24, 20252 min read


actually, megan, i can't sit anywhere
It’s Ash Wednesday this week. I’m aware that, for most people, this means wonky pancakes on Tuesday morning and then six weeks of...

Chessie Mills-Smith
Mar 3, 20253 min read


do you have a chicken for my table?
how not to spend Valentine's Day When my husband booked February 14th off work, his office spent all of Thursday asking ‘ooh, where are...

Chessie Mills-Smith
Feb 24, 20253 min read


what do you think i have down there, a gnome?
We’ve all seen the videos of people neatly boxing up their pregnancy tests and giving them to their partners / parents / siblings as a...

Chessie Mills-Smith
Feb 17, 20253 min read


kachow
just call me Lightning McQueen I think that one of my proudest moments as a PA was when I got asked to arrange an emergency car repair...

Chessie Mills-Smith
Feb 10, 20252 min read


maybe we should totally just stab Caesar
life skills according to Gretchen Wieners If there’s one thing that pregnancy has taught me (apart from the value of being able to sleep...

Chessie Mills-Smith
Feb 3, 20252 min read
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